So AF was due yesterday she was a no show so I decided to take a test today and to my amazement it was positive😄 my husband and I have been trying for 10+years ending miscarriages our last one was in February we lost our Daughter at 21wks ok so here is were the dilemma comes to play we were approached by a family member to adopt a baby which is due fairly soon!! and now to find out I'm pregnant I'm struggling do I still adopt this baby? do I politely decline? I am afraid that if I decline adopting this baby and miscarry with this pregnancy I'm going be left with NO baby I feel like GOD has givin me both these opportunities for a reason what would you ladies do in this situation?