I feel entirely inadequate today. I'm currently at 21 weeks and I'm not sure how I'm going to handle it all. I work full time as an engineer and I have a dog, a house, and a husband to take care of. I'm not succeeding at that as it is, how am I supposed to add a baby to the mix? Currently my house is a mess and there is a lot of maintenance that is falling by the wayside with me being pregnant. Neither of our families live close by, so they can't help. My mother in law offered to come stay with us for a while but there is no way I wouldn't go crazy if she did. I'm not sure what I'm going to do.