Stop Saying That!!!

I'm so over people saying "stop thinking about it and it will happen".

I literally CAN NOT stop thinking about it. I spent the first 6 months "not thinking/ worrying about it". I am past that point. It is always on my mind. When you have been TTC for close to 15 months, its dang near impossible not to think about it. I'm sick of feeling heartbroken every time I have to tell my husband "this just wasn't our month". I understand that it will happen when it's supposed to happen, but crying all the time is getting old. I'm trying my hardest to stay positive, but telling me to "not think about it" isn't helping.