Okay so I'm 4+ weeks and scheduled for my new ob visit Sept 21 which will put me roughly at 10 or so weeks. My husband and I wanted to wait to tell our families until after 16 weeks. We're military and live in a different state from our families so we were planning on announcing our pregnancy when we go home for Christmas. now by that time I will be 24 weeks and most likely showing. I feel like I would want to tell them sooner than Christmas but the hubs wants to wait, what do I do?