Did i do wrong sending this to my bf ex

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Right they have a kid together (only recently found out he did she is nearly one) and his ex is a massive bitch to me and last night his family got in a massive argument about shit loads and my boyfriend throws in that 'slag' tried it on with him. 
I stormed out the house after asking him loads and he denied it (he said he didnt tell me as he didnt want me to get hurt) i went back in the house robbed his phone got her number and text her this

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Yes I think you were VERY wrong and insanely immature. I cringed when I read this.

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I just want to know how old you are? Reading that mess made my head hurt.

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So your boyfriend didn't tell you he has a child and SHES the one you're so mad at?? Your boyfriend sounds like a sneaky immature boy.

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Doing stuff like this just adds fuel to the fire. If he wants to see his daughter and coparent in a healthy way which is good for said child you need to stay out of it. Getting into a pissing match with her calling names just makes you look like exactly what she thinks you are. In a situation like this I'd say kill with kindness, if you have a great happy relationship with your boyfriend let her see that and don't let her get in your head. And you should want to see his daughter, treating her poorly is not fair. His number one priority should be seeing his daughter and loving her. You should be his number one supporter and the 3 of you need to figure out how to co parent in a way that is healthy for that little girl.

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Immature to say through least. you are no better than she is.

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If he ever goes to court to get his daughter texts like this might not look so good. It didnt need to be said. If your man is loyal to you and wouldn't give in, why act this way with her? Also, it sounds like there is a lot of baggage between you and your SO you need to work out. He's a dad now and you two have to be responsible and mature about the situation no matter how hard that may seem.

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Definitely immature to send that, in my opinion.

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It's not threatening or unprecedented, I'm guilty of similar texts 😂 it's probably not the classiest way to deal with it but I don't think it's wrong 😂

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Leave the daughter out of it. She is innocent in this and to hate her or feel it's okay to never have her around is wrong. She will always be in his life and you need to get over that.

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You should of heard what shes been texting him she is worst then me an using a baby as weapon

Did i do wrong sending this to my bf ex

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