Sex Life After Marriage??

Question

Has anyone husband stop or wont do Oral with them?? What should I do?  Stay in this marriage? Or Divorce because sex will never be the same again?? I need help

Answer

Divorce? Are you joking? Why don't you talk to him about it?

Answer

No more oral in my life either. 14 months post pregnancy and my husband swears he cant get in the mood to do that anymore... I give him a pass because I didnt have to watch my sons head come out after 26hrs of no sleep lol Lots of other fun ways to still enjoy each other!

Answer

Whoa. Divorce over oral sex? That seems a bit hasty. I'd suggest maybe talking to him, if that doesn't work, maybe counseling? 
If everything else is good, I'd definitely rethink divorce at this point.....

Answer

Jump to divorce over that? Are you looking for a reason to leave?

Answer

All of your comments are all head on and I really, honestly appreciate all of them, the hard and soft ones, funny ones too. I'm not divorcing my King and we've since talked about it and has resolved the issue. I just needed a reality check from someone else other than my close friends. Thank you all again!! I'm forever grateful I have a man such as he. He's an AWESOME man and I'm the lucky/BLESSED one!!

Answer

my husband stopped and you know for a while I complained but whatever. he makes me feel good in other ways. I mean hell yeah I miss when he would go down on me but it is what it is. i wouldn't divorce him over it. our sex life is still great

Answer

No oral for me = No oral for you.
I mean not even sometimes... for Christmas, birthday, nothing! That's just rude. 
Don't divorce though. Now if he keeps changing his mind on more important/bigger issues. That a problem. In that situation... to to counseling.

Answer

Marietta, did you marry this guy for oral sex? Or because you wanted to actually wanted to have a marriage with him? If I decided I never wanted to have sex again, my fiance would still marry me, and I him if he wanted to be celibate (I'm not guessing, we've actually talked about this). Marriage, for us, is not about the sex (and don't get me wrong, our sex is fantastic 😓) . But for us, it's about being together, going through life as a partnership. We're best friends, and sex is only a bonus to what is already an amazing companionship.

If you're seriously considering divorcing your husband just because he won't go down on you anymore, you had no business marrying him. How would you feel if he threatened to divorce you because you fed him Mac n cheese instead of chicken nuggets for dinner??? That's essentially what you're doing to him.

My advice is simple. Suck it up. You made this decision, as long as he isn't abusive or violent to you, you have to live with that decision. You married him. Now live with it.

Answer

my husband holds me yesterday that our sex life change after oir marriage and Idk I been feeling it too

Answer

You would divorce someone you vowed to be with forever because he won't lick your genitals? Seriously?! 
Yes, maybe you should so he can marry someone that actually loves him and not just the sex. If you decide to make divorce not an option, then I'd happily tell you to talk it out with him. Maybe there's a reason behind it, that can be fixed! If not, figure out other things that can be just as good! Sex is important, to me, but it's not EVERYTHING.

Sex Life After Marriage??

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey