My boyfriend, 36 years old, goes to the breweries a lot which has been an issue for a long time. He recently left my Dads bday BBQ early just to hang out with his friends, at the brewery. He knows how I feel about him being there 2-3 days/per week but continues to do so. It gets me very anxious and now is leaving me feeling super depressed and want to back out of a almost 3 year relationship. I need productive help and not someone who is going to criticize me.