So, as you can probably guess from the title of this post, I am a virgin. I'm 19 (almost 20), in college, and still have not lost my virginity. It's not a huge secret or anything but for as long as I can remember I've been waiting. The idea of someone who truly loves me taking my virginity is something I have wanted for a long time. That is until I realized how douchey guys in their 20s are (making me believe that if I wait for love I'll be waiting forever). I don't want my virginity to constantly be stopping me from being a free spirited young woman who openly expresses her sexuality, which is all I honestly want to be, but I can't help but have this fairytale idea loom in the back of my mind anytime I get close to having sex (which kinda kills the mood). So please give a girl some advice about virginity and waiting for love or if I should just do it and have fun!