telling my parents


So to start off I do not live with my parents I have my own place with my husband and we financially stable. The thing is my parents are very against any of their kids bringing more kids into the world. My mom goes as far as saying if you have another baby you can't come visit. I personally don't want to tell my mom until I am so far along I can't hide it anymore. My husband feels like we should tell them earlier. The thing is I don't want her to ruin this pregnancy with her negativity. What would you ladies do? Would you just rip off the band aid and get it over with or enjoy your pregnancy and don't say anything until you can hide it anymore?