So annoyed I can't deal with it anymore.

So I'll tell you what I'm annoyed about in three parts

1. My bf is working with this girl who has made it 100% clear she is interested in him. He is not interested in her obviously, but she left where they worked and since they still talked she told him how great her new job was, long story short; he left his old job and now works with her again, plus her friend who likes him as well. He did it also because that workplace is across the street from me and much easier but it still upset me and every time he mentions work I feel upset.

2. He is muslim and I am Christian and he can, not always, but sometimes be judgemental about my belief system, he says countless things that are, in my opinion wack, but I stay quiet out of respect. But he just has to say his opinion out loud and it's really disrespectful because he is laughing about it even though it's really hurting me, not to mention our families disapprove of us yet I have revealed our relationship anyways because Its important to me and after 6 months, his family still doesn't know about me or have met me.

3. He gets so angry if I have the smallest sip of alcohol because he thinks it's bad, yet he smoked a cigarette, which he knows I hate with his friend and I found out a month after because he hid it from me knowing I'd get upset.

All these things hit me recently and I just feel overwhelmed with resentment and I don't know what to do, please help