Recommendations Please!!

Hi!

My boyfriend and I are planning on having sex soon and it'll be my first time.

I'm very small, only 5 feet tall and 90 pounds, which might mean my vagina is on the small side too??

My boyfriend's penis is 8 1/2 inches long and very girthy too. (RIP)

So I know this is gonna probably hurt a lot and I want to get some kind of lubricant to help me out. I would like to get one that's safe to injest (maybe flavored)

It also has to be safe to use with a condom.

If you guys have any suggestions for me I would really appreciate it.

Any other tips to help me not die would also be greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance! 😁❤️