How do you know when it's real?

Question

I met this guy  2or3 weeks ago but never got his number due to me being shy and insecure. I feel like he's interested but I don't wanna get hoed by asking for his number. I feel like maybe I'm putting to much thought into everything. So what should I do? How do I know if he's really interested? 🤔

Answer

If he wants you in his life he will make the effort. Nothing stops a man from being with you. My guy when he worked far away would travel by buses and trains even if he got to see me for a few hours to a few days. Nothing stopped him from seeing me. He sacrificed time. Money. Sleep. Nothing stopped him. Because I was his plan. Not his back up plan. He didn't string me along or told me what I wanted to hear to get what he wanted. Take it slow. Play it cool and be his friend. Get to know him well everyone puts on their best face in the beginning. No one says hi I'm a jerk that's going to use you. No they sweet talk you and suck you in and guilt and manipulate you. If it's meant to be it will be. Make him work for it. Remember just because a man desires you doesn't mean he values or respects you.

Answer

I think you need to get a little more self esteem before you consider trying to be in a relationship or it will cause problems, as for the rest just ask and if he says no then it's not the end of the world. 🙂

How do you know when it's real?

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