Alright y'all, boyfriend (soon to be hubby) we're getting married in April of next year. Anyways, we both want a baby but he has now decided he wants to wait until he's back from deployment. He's deploying soon.. I want one so bad though. He wants to wait because he doesn't want to miss my appointments or just watching me be pregnant as an experience. He said at least. But I feel like I'm just being selfish for wanting one so badly while he's away..

what do I do? I have plenty of reasons as to why I want one so bad rn. I just don't know how to get him to agree with me. Idk..😞