I came home to find some of my nicer things missing. Just like expensive body washes that I'd been rationing cause they're so expensive and I got them for my birthday/special occasions and can't afford them on my own.

My first thought was someone had been to my house while I'd been gone and stolen them, which I know is a bizarre thing to assume as who would take used body products but it was the only thing I could fathom as they had mysteriously disappeared and I spent over an hour turning the house upside down thinking my stupid pregnant brain did something weird with them. I even wondered if my boyfriend had had another girl at the house and she had stolen some of my things or something.

Then my boyfriend just casually tells me he threw them out cause the bottles were worn and gross. I stayed calm but was still like wtf those are my things, you didn't even ask. And he was like, well you never even used them. And I was like, I do use them, they're my favourites and some of that stuff is like $30 a bottle. As it's my favourite stuff and I can't afford it on my own, I only use it in tiny amounts every day.

Should he replace them?? Who just does that without even asking? I could have just wiped the bottle clean if he was that bothered!!

He initially said he'd buy me new ones, but when he saw the prices, he said he'd buy me new, but cheaper versions of similar products. Wtf?? I'd pull them out of the trash but he's already taken the trash outside and the trash guy took them away. I've been so incredibly stressed out lately and this just put me over the edge. Combined with hormones, I just felt so sad.

What should I do? Keep in mind I have to replace the products either way as I don't have any other products to use. But I'm poor.

EDIT: they were not truly disgusting, there was just some grime on the bottom of some bottles from me taking them in the shower. Most of the stuff was barely even used. They weren't "out" either, he'd gone through my cabinet of just my stuff, which was also weird.

They were similar to this bottle, which he decided to leave for some bizarre reason. Probably because he uses it too: