Well we found out the reason why my husband gets soft in the middle of us making love. It's not all the time he goes soft but it still makes him feel bad. We make love maybe once a week and he always makes sure that he pleases me. We have been married for 19 years this November and our sex life has never been a problem before, it's just recently. He has another blockage in his heart and he will be having open heart surgery again. We don't get to make love like we want because of my crazy long 18 hour work shifts. I love him so much and I will always be right by his side no matter what. When I said my wedding vows, I meant every word. ❤️