Foreplay Ideas??
My husband and I are very reserved in bed, but I'm having trouble getting wet. I need foreplay ideas because I'm not sure what else there is. I give him oral. He's not comfortable giving me oral. He rubs my clit some, but it doesn't feel great because I'm not wet yet... And we kiss. What else can we do?
ETA: I am actually very open to pretty much anything. My husband was raised in a family that said sex is bad all the time, so he's dealing with that, plus he hates hates hates getting messy. I have asked him for oral for my birthday this year, and he agreed to try, but I don't anticipate he will like it or do it regularly. Sex is supposed to be for both of us, so I'm not going to try to make him do it if he doesn't like it, and I'm not going to withhold oral from him to manipulate him. I don't mind doing it for him, and he likes it, so refusing to get him to do what I want seems petty to me.