Foreplay Ideas??

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My husband and I are very reserved in bed, but I'm having trouble getting wet. I need foreplay ideas because I'm not sure what else there is. I give him oral. He's not comfortable giving me oral. He rubs my clit some, but it doesn't feel great because I'm not wet yet... And we kiss. What else can we do? ETA: I am actually very open to pretty much anything. My husband was raised in a family that said sex is bad all the time, so he's dealing with that, plus he hates hates hates getting messy. I have asked him for oral for my birthday this year, and he agreed to try, but I don't anticipate he will like it or do it regularly. Sex is supposed to be for both of us, so I'm not going to try to make him do it if he doesn't like it, and I'm not going to withhold oral from him to manipulate him. I don't mind doing it for him, and he likes it, so refusing to get him to do what I want seems petty to me.

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Tie him down and sit on his face. Masturbate for him and let him watch Buy a vibrator and let him watch Definitely sit on his face

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Anything that seems like the easiest suggestions seem like they will be more than you guys are comfortable with. Here's my advice though get to a place he will go down on you. Talk to him see why he doesn't want to and explain why it would help you..see if he can at least try it. Otherwise I would suggest investing in some toys to help...even just a little bullet will help a lot. And don't rub on a dry clay, use lube or spit or something. You can actually cause small tears by doing that, put moisture there and it's will help to feel good. Hopefully these don't make you uncomfortable, sorry if they do but those would be what I would suggest...I have a question though. And if it's to perosnal don't worry about answering. but why are you guys so reserved in bed??

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I know some people are saying that if you do it for him then he should do it for you. I would talk to him about it but some people don't like certain things. I don't like cum in my mouth and my husband has been fine about that! He doesn't like when I pinch his nipples... haha. But for real don't be too pushy about it but do try to talk to him about why he doesn't seem to want to. I would suggest getting some toys and having him play with you using them. Invest in some good lube and use that too, even with the toy. Sex is fun for no one when you aren't lubed up!

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He should return the favour if you do it for him

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why doesnt he give you oral may i ask?

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Suck on your breasts pull your hair and kiss your neck. it will feel better for him to rub you when your not wet if you are still wearing pants or underwear (I know this sounds weird)

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Get some lube and lay down a towel ( I don't like messy sex too much either and somehow having a towel down puts me at ease lol). Definitely try showing him what you like to do to yourself to give him a good idea of where you like to be touched.