Fear of Intercourse

Alyse
I am so afraid to have sex. It know it will hurt, and honestly that's the main thing keeping me from having it. I avoid pain like the plague and have a non-existent pain tolerance. I'm not sure how to get rid of the fear or even lessen the fear. 
It's sad because I want to have a lot of children but I'm afraid to do the act that leads to them.