Ladies I really need some help! I have no idea what I'm doing!

Sara • Mom to Bryson🦖 7/3/13, my angel baby Brayden👼 12/15/17-12/21/17, & Apollo 9/26/19🌈
Please help I really don't know what to do I need advice or input. I haven't been to the baby doctor in over a month! I missed a check up and everything.. I recently had to move states due to unforeseen circumstances, I had a midwife I was seeing and I am on medicaid, well after the move I have had such a huge problem getting my medicaid case closed in the other state so I can't open a new medicaid case in this state! I've been struggling trying to get it all situated and have spent hours on the phone! My main question is I would like to go to a check up so I can find out the gender!!! I am a little over 18 weeks, will an obgyn or midwife take out of state insurance??? I just wanna check up on my baby to make sure its okay and to see if I'm having another son or little girl! 😢 and I just don't know how much longer it will be till I get insurance in this new state! Please any advice!