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I live with my boyfriend (both 20 yrs old) and we both have jobs, we have each other and we should be  making "i dont know" "partying", but instead i feel the need of having a baby, i lost pne in the past  and now im trying and i feel like i might not get that chance again. Is it wrong to desire to have a baby at this age? Cuz i feel like something is missing. Please be honest but respectful.  🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁🙁

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I am 19 and me and my partner live together and both have jobs. We are also trying for our first baby because we feel we are ready to be parents. If you feel like you and you partner are ready then I don't think it matters what anybody else thinks

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I don't think it is wrong, but I think you should be responsible about it. Make sure you can afford it and that your boyfriend really is the one. Personally I wouldn't TTC with someone I wasn't married to, but I don't think it is wrong as long as you have income to support the child.

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Girl smh. Ive want a baby since i was 16...i slda been one of the girls on maury. Im happy it didnt happen then like it did for all my friends n peers. But it honestly makes ttc even harder knowing ive been trying to get pregnant since i was 16...im 28 now. Ive never been even close to being pregnant and every guy that ive tried with in the past has went on to have kids. Ur not too young. If u feel like yall can provide n both on the same page BABY DUST TO U BOO BOO😍😍

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The loss of a child whether one or 100 will change you forever.  Even at 20 there is a void a piece of your soul is in heaven right now and that feeling you want it back stays with you even as terrifying as it can get.  I've had 15 pregnancies my 12th was my first born son at 25 weeks one day 12/13/15 and my 15th was my second born son also at 25 weeks one day born 8/11/17.  For nub angels buried and not buried i still yearn for them.  I often look at pictures remembering them and missing them.  I obviously have been blessed with 2 miracle babies but don't feel guilty for feeling the way you do.  You're a mother who has lost a child.  I say that kinda trumps your age a bit.  Stay here using this app and you'll see just how much we all have in common.  Stay strong never give up hope and trust me there is a rainbow soul that belongs to you !!!  That time will come but in this time now - you must try and gain closure to heal.  I'm not sure how many weeks you were but if you didn't get the chance to bury your child - write that angel a letter and bury it.  Take it to the lake or even cemetery where babies are buried and bury it there among the other angels.  Having something tangible can also help when you're feeling lost or missing something.  Trust me ... you can't replace a lost child but you can use that strength to build that new rainbow baby that will one day call you mama.  You'll see ... just never give up hope !!!

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Sit down, make a list of expenses and go from there. Having a baby is 3-12k depending on circumstances. Then you have formula, diapers, possible child care if needed. You will be on leave for 6-8 weeks so a expect a smaller income there. Just think is all I'm saying. Many people go in headfirst and it can be tough.

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