love or lust?

I need some advice, so I'll give you abit of back story and Idk... so 5 months ago, I went to my friends 18th party and met this guy with the most amazing eyes and who could really dance, I couldn't take my eyes off him! But I didn't talk to him, the next day he added me on messenger and we talked for 2 or 3 weeks every day then we met up and went on a date, a week later we got together. so we have been together 4 months, things went pretty quickly and about a month in we had already gone all the way... so now I'm being how I am and over thinking everything and I don't know if I'm looking at it from a balanced view. so I feel like when we're together, in person all we do is watch netflix and do something sexual. When we text we text normally and for most of the day. I'm wondering if my relationship is purely lust or if it's 'love' and an actual connection. my parents were in an abusive relationship and are now divorced ( separated 4 years ago) so I don't have a solid basis of what a relationship 'should' be like. I feel like I love him, but I don't know of what im feeling is lust