I don't know how to feel.

My OH is bi.

We ran into an ex Fuck buddy of his, a guy, yesterday and I felt uncomfortable. The guy has a girls name so when OH talked about them I didn't think anything of it.

I was uncomfortable because the guy stopped and stared at my OH until he noticed them it was a good 5 minutes. When they were leaving they also hugged for quite a long time. You know the one Mississippi thing? Yeah it was 12. Weirded me out.

Well on the ride home i asked If he was still attracted to the guy and OH said yes.

Well he and the guy were talking about meeting and hanging out and I am very upset I know if this were a girl id be up in arms throwing a fit that he wants to hang out with someone he was in a relationship with, had sex with, and is still attracted to.

But since its a guy it'll be swung in the controlling girlfriend won't let me hang out with friends way. Or even worse OH has always wanted a 3 some with another guy and I'm just not comfortable with that.

But I feel like he's going to pressure me more bc of his friend now living in town.

I know I should trust him but there's always been a rule we don't hang out with ex's. Since I had our baby 3 months ago I feel like he doesn't feel the same towards me with him not doing the little things he used to anymore. Him being bi is not new info to me, just the first time I've met one of the same sex.

They have been talking all day deciding when and where to hang out.

EDIT not to hang out with ex alone. I'm if others are there but not alone. he has enforced this with me.