Help?

I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend tried to lose our virginity to each other last night. It was a disaster he couldn't even get the tip in without me crying because it hurt so much... We tried live at one point and we were both really turned on so I don't know why it was so hard for him to go in but then I started bleeding and my period was last week, someone give advice on how to make it less painful or something and what the bleeding was please? I don't think I broke my hymen because it still hurts if he tries to go in and I thought the hymen was the reason why but now I'm not sure.