Seeing as we have been trying for baby since April sex seems to have got very 'vanilla' and wasn't as fun and spontaneous as it used to be. Last week I bought a vibrating cock ring, our first toy (wow! Definitely recommend) and some sex undies. I have crotchless panties to wear next time we go to dinner. We've tried moving sex out of the bedroom and been doing it in the lounge and shower. Surprise blowjobs and new lubes to try. What else can I do to surprise him with spontaneous sex? Any ideas are welcome, happy to try anything.