My parents don't know that I'm sexually active and I don't want them to know. They are very conservative and it would do nothing but cause a disaster if they knew. Besides, it's none of their business; I'm an adult and I use birth control.

I recently had to get a PAP test done and my mom kept questioning why I had to get one if I wasn't sexually active, she wouldn't give it a rest! Then I got abnormal test results back and she keeps telling me that "since I'm not sexually actively I don't have as much to worry about".

I just want her to stop snooping/prying into my personal life!! I know she only does it cause she loves me but it's very annoying and uncomfortable. I absolutely DO NOT want her to find out I'm not a virgin. But she won't give it up 😤 Any tips on how to deal with this?