Why tf is he like this???

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I love my man very much and I think he loves me too... I mean he did ask me to marry him and he paid to have my tubes reversed so we can have a baby together. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage but he is the #1 man in their lives. Anyway. He is NEVER EVER EVER affectionate. Like NEVER!! He never wants a kiss or to cuddle or anything. If my leg touches him at night while we're in bed he will yank his leg away. He wants a baby but he never wants to have sex. I mean shit I can't even get the man to hold my hand in the movie theatre!! Is it me? Is he not attracted to me anymore? I need opinions and/or suggestions because I'm about to lose my shit. I need affection or a little attention or something! Ugh I'm feeling real fat and ugly and gross! Help...

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Unfortunately.... some men are just "like that". I had an ex like that. Want to guess why he's my ex? 😐
I just couldn't live that way. Constantly questioning what was "wrong" with me. Or if he didn't love me. Or whatever. He told me he had no plans to change soooo....

It was a hard call though, because I did love him.... but we weren't married yet so I decided to find someone who was interested in loving me the way I needed loved. :)

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talk to him, tell him how he has been making you feel. open communication works wonders in relationships. good luck dear

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My partner is the exact same! He has four kids to previous partner and we have two together, he is the exact same doesn't wanna touch or anything only when it suits him which is like never, the only time I feel like he wants me is sex which is barely ever, I'm at the point where I want to leave him :(

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Some guys are just like that. I mean the no sex is another issue I'd address. But like my boyfriend is like that as far as no affection. If he's been drinking he'll get a little more affectionate SOMETIMES but sober. We don't kiss, we don't cuddle, we don't hold hands nothing. That's just how he grew up. He's never seen his parents kiss or anything. His dad is really unaffectionate to, where he gets it from. I don't always like it but I know how he feels about me so I just got use to it and know that it's not me, he's just not like that.

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Oh I'm way to insecure for that! lol You need to talk to him, because he may just be that way, he should be making the effort.

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I had an ex like that also, maybe not quite that bad, he just wasn't cuddly or touchy feely and rarely wanted sex. He's an ex for that reason and others. My SO now is Very much the opposite! I love how affectionate and cuddly he is!

Why tf is he like this???

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