They have been friends for 10 years nothing more then friends he even hooked her up with her current husband. She's a very aggressive, she doesn't have girl friends because she says she hates girls and can connect with men better. She has told my bf that she can't believe he's dating a girl like me because I'm so girlie and his ex was more gothic and she liked her and doesn't get us together. The thing I don't understand is she treats my bf like she's dating him I see texts with her saying she misses him and he spends no time with her and all this weird shit he told me she's just needy and emotional. I don't get it? He and her husband were hanging out after work and they didn't tell her and she found out and bitched him out he put it on speaker and I heard everything it sounded like a jealous girlfriend and he just said she was drunk and that makes it ok? I'm like what the shit? What should I do about her or is there even anything I can do?