ingrown hair I thinkk

I shaved a couple days ago down there and I got an ingrown hair (I think) it's just a bug bump right on the edge of my lips and it hurts so much but it's not white or anything so I've been trying to just put a warm washcloth on it and hope it helps any other advice? it hurts to wear underwear or anything other than sweat pants because the seam rubs it😩😩