What's the point😒

My boyfriend who I met in middle school moved to a different state after high school and we reconnected after high school (both are 22 years old now) we have been dating for a year now and he recently started working the over night shift which is 9pm-7am and we have absolutely no time to talk because he sleeps during the day. Also his days off I work. We plan on me moving to him this year and idk how we are going to do this whole thing with us living together. What's even the point of me moving 2000 miles away from my friends and family to be with someone I never get to see?