WHAT DO I DO?

Question

If I was snooping in my bfs fb messenger and I saw a conversation that I didn't like. Him flirting with a chick from his job but from June. Do I say something ?

Answer

Well... A. Were you two dating in June? If yes, then I would confront him. If no, then I wouldn't confront him. B. Was he really flirting, or could you have exaggerated a bit because you freaked out when you seen it? Take a step back and look again if you're not sure. (Not being rude, I just know I would've done some shit like that- lol.) and.. C. Is it worth the possible argument or could it be left alone? If it's worth it, go for it. If it can be left alone, forget about it and leave it alone. Good luck!

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Depends on the type of flirting.  There's innocent flirting,  that isn't leading anywhere.  And then there's 'I want this to progress' flirting.  If the messages have stopped and the messages were a bit of harmless flirting I probably wouldn't make it my priority to bring it up.

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I have done this exact thing and he was talking to a girl he knew I didn't feel so comfortable with. So I said something. I asked him and he cleared things up. I trust my man but if anything makes me uncomfortable... I will ask about it. Communication is best.

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Yeah. Flirting is cheating. Torch that ass

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Oh hell no. you straight up confront him. if he brings up trust and his phone you tell him you only did it cuz you had a feelijg. you don't need someone flirting behind your back.

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Talk to him about it?

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