Anyone else finding that when you mention about wanting a baby or coming off the pill that people instantly want to make judgments? I'm 21, recently married and have been with my husband for nearly 2.5 years. I trust him completely and know that whatever happens with us (hopefully be together forever) he will be an AMAZING father to our children. But I'm fed up of peoples comments like "you're too young" or "you just got married enjoy each other for a while" or "you've got to get on the property ladder"... I just hope there's others out there like me that all they want out of like is to be a mother. I've always been a stubborn, strong-willed kind of person, it won't stop me but just puts a downer on things... anyone else feel the same?