Don't stress and it will happen?!

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I'm starting to get a bit annoyed when people around me say this. We've only been TTC for a few months, but that's all they keep saying. 
Is anyone else annoyed with this?
So for those of you who got a BFP, did this work for you? And how did you stay calm and not stressed?

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It's part of the reason I haven't told a single person that we are trying... I don't want the expectations or lots of questions

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It did work for me! I just stopped testing with opks, & temping & track all symptoms. I continued with my herbs & prenatal. I did read a lot to pass time, started a garden, just let my body do what it was designed to do & about 9 dpo or something like that I took a test & sure enough I had my bfp. I was 3 weeks 2 days. I started stressing then & two weeks later I miscarried. All in all I realized your body will do what it's designed to do that's carry a child. Just enjoy sex anytime of your cycle don't make it a chore because doing all that other stuff adds unnecessary stress! Just relax, do hobbies, read books, find new recipes & all of that good stuff. Your time will come! Oh & pray!!!! Baby dust to you ✨✨✨

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The other thing too is how many BFP do I see where ppl post their calendar and I can see they logged everyday, BD everyday/every other day, tracked CM, tracked BBT, used OPKs then it's like "yaaayyy BFP!!" 
Thats trying (and stressing) much more intensely then I am 😪 😒

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honestly it worked for me but I needed up having a miscarriage..  but I had stopped everything I stopped taking OPK I stopped coming on here I just had fun with it I stopped tracking everything and it's kind of funny because right before I found out I had came on here and made a. post how I was just done trying all together I was just gonna accept the fact that I wasn't gonna get pregnant because I have pcos so it's a little harder.  then 3 days later I went to the hospital because I was having really bad chest pain about an hour later the doctor comes back an tells me I'm pregnant lol...  But Now I'm trying for my rainbow baby praying it happens soon not trying to stress myself out over it.. but Yes I Would Say It Helps When u just Stoped Thinking About it.

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I had someone tell me that I should consider trying to conceive as a "two year plan" and to relax. Uhhh... no thanks? 😡

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I literally was like f**k it and went got drunk had fun but i was stressed as my dad was going in for heart surgery... he had his op last week and im 6 weeks pregnant 😃 good luck xx

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I hated hearing it too! but after a year of tracking and BBT'ing and crying and testing after a miscarriage! I just quick trying! I relaxed and one day something was like ..."just take a test Erica...!!!" and wth...I did! I bought clearblue test from CVS and the first one was invalid! 😒😒😒 Not a line to the first came up! No test line...nothing! So the next morning I tested with the second one and BAM it was positive!!! It was 2 days before fathers day and I was so excited I woke my husband up out of his sleep and shoved the test in his face!! 😂 So I don't mean to sound like everyone else but I have been in 4 serious relationships where we have tries for years and nothing! Then i met my Husband in 2010 & for the first time became pregnant in 2016! So when its meant to happen...trust me, it will!

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We've been trying for 2.5 yrs and I still get this 🙄😒

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While I think stress is a killer, sometimes stress isn't the issue! However, I have to admit,I used to think that way, too. Not after trying for a year, though. I haven't told ANYONE that were ttc, but I  am prepared for the future, in case I confide :)

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