How do I get my boyfriend to be more spontaneous?!

Lexie

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 7 months. I really love him and I’m in the process of moving in with him. Lately I’ve noticed that our sex life is become more.... routine? We don’t ever have sex outside of the bedroom. When we do have sex it’s good sex, but it’s not the hot kinky sex I want. I’ve bought some cute lingerie but he didn’t really seem interested. I don’t know how to get him to be rough with or randomly throw me up against the wall or even in the kitchen. How do I get him to give it to me like I want without making him feel like he’s been doing a bad job?