I'm 3 years from my 40thod

He and his family want a baby I don't. Think he'll change his mind and stay knowing I don't want kids? Or will I have to let him go cause of the annoyance of repetitive talk on the same topic. I told him to let himself free when he really feels ready and to find a good woman that will give him what he wants. I'm not selfish nor a hostage.

Not married but living together for 2 years and grew up on the same street. And he forces the relationship to stick together ive tried splitting but it was just for silly arguments not for this baby issue. Even adopting is a no for him.

I'd think of adopting in a very special circumstance. Like if it's an orphan or someone that want to release all rights. I'd adore and treat this baby like my own. But he says he wants his own genes.