Whenever I am being intimate with my partner, I'm finding that even if I'm aroused I never get wet. We always have to use some sort of lube but I am finding that every lube we use burns. Like BURNS. Also recently I have started having extreme swelling of my inner vaginal lips after sex. I am planning on going into a doctor to see what's up but every time I have in the past they just say to use a different lube and use more of it. because of all this my libido is starting to plummet so I almost never want to have sex anymore which is really driving a wedge between me and my partner. Help!