TTC and have ??? Please help!!

Stephanie

Hey guys I'm 30 years old and me and my husband have been trying for 2 months. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. For the past 2 months I've been really good and have not taken any Xanax because I've been able to manage. This past week I found out my father has stage 4 cancer and it's not curable. My anxiety is thru the roof and have been waking up with heart palpitations in the middle of the night. My question is I'm on my 2 week waiting period and I took a xanax the other night and I think I really need to take one more tonight but I'm nervous. I guess my ? Is if you are pregnant and you are on medication how many weeks into your pregnancy when it starts effecting the baby. I mean if I found out I was pregnant I would stop immediately but if I'm not it's hard to suffer the next 2 weeks! Please help!!