How can I make my man rougher in bed?

So I always wanted rough sex, we probably did it just once or twice and that's just it. My husband is always very gentle with me as he is not the manly overly dominating like. When I ask his fantasy, he said he liked me tied on a swing like thing so each swing he'll fuck harder. But that's about it. Of course we could do this but this isn't something doable for us as we live in a condo and swings have no place in there.. it's also worth mentioning my husband is a fast cummer. What can help him stay hard for a long time? Viagra?

Anyway, can you help out with some suggestions? I do miss getting exhausted and getting sore the next day of doing the deed. I'm not into the choking or awfully hurting but I do love spanks and when he holds me with some force.