So lately my hubby's been kinda upset about the whole having sex with the sole purpose of TTC and I forgot about his needs and desires in a way. I mean sex is great but it was becoming a chore and it was the same old same old kind of thing.

Well he had a bad day at work today and I just felt bad. So, I thought I should give him some oral. (I do just not to where he finishes you know). AF is here anyways and idk I just wanted to do something nice for him. So I went ahead and started giving him oral while he was playing Xbox. He kept going "what are you doing it's not time for us to try you're on your period and I know you don't wanna have sex right now" & I just looked up at him with seductive eyes. 😏 he quit asking and just sat there. Well, I kept on and finally he told his buddies on Xbox he'd be right back. My man has to focus to get off, 😂 so I let him finish & swallowed it. (Guys... I usually can't but it really wasn't that bad) & I have never seen him smile more than that. I know that's kinda an odd story but I am feeling pretty accomplished. He asked me why I did it and that I never do that so what was wrong with me. Which, kinda upset me but It wasn't that anything was wrong I just realized sometimes I need to focus on him while being more spontaneous. Needless to say i have a very happy hubby, and I am going to start doing this more often.

He's always so about me and we always just BD to get the job done you know?

Ladies PLEASE DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUBBYS ONCE IN AWHILE IF YOU DONT. Keep the intimacy going. It's nice to see them smile and have something different at times. Even if it's just cooking them a dinner or having the house cleaned or just doing something different means a lot.

I have to say tho, pretty proud of myself. I know it's nothing to be proud of but you know. 🤷🏼‍♀️