I knew my FI since we were 6 and been together for 8 years and engaged for two. We have one kid and another on the way! Our wedding isn't till May of 2018 on our 9 year anniversary but everyone is saying "why don't we just get it over with because we been together for so long..what are we waiting for" I would like a nice wedding that we can afford next year but I feel like I'm getting pressured to signing papers with him now ..