ok so the SO and I have been ttc for over a year. no luck 👎 I have 2 children from my previous relationship. My son is turning 9 next month and my daughter is 6. He also has a daughter who is turning 3. Since we already have a boy and a 2 girls I suggested if we do ever get pregnant we shouldn't find out the sex and let it be a surprise when he/she is born. he is totally against it. what's your thoughts?? would you want to know or let it be the biggest surprise of your life???