So after a year of working at it we successfully did anal last night. It wasn't planned so I was a lot more relaxed. It wasn't bad at all! A little sore today though. He was really soft with me at first, and kissed me the whole time. (I usually don't like kissing during sex) then I let him cum inside me and before he pulled it out he slapped me and told me I was a good little slut. 😈 it was a perfect first time and I even cleared up an argument we'd been having for the last three days. 👌🏻