So I've been TTC for about 8 months now, but it's been very difficult because my period has been quite irregular. I will have a period one month, and then nothing for two months... (I'm thinking that

may have to do with stopping the Nuva Ring). I've been getting my hopes up every month when my period doesn't seem to appear, and I take a test and it's always negative. The anxiety and disappointment of those negative tests are almost too much for me to handle, I always feel if I'm not pregnant then something else must be wrong with me, and then that anxiety overcomes me. But now I'm having more symptoms than I've ever had before. My breasts are getting bigger and have been very sore, I've been having these cramps on my sides, mood swings, frequent urination, unusual bloating, food aversions, etc. Is this enough symptoms for me to really need to take a test? And how do I deal with the anxiety over it?