I'm so sad and heartbroken the man I have been with for 5 years and trying to have a family with cheated or had intentions of cheating. Saturday night after the fight he was telling me he had to go help his friend with a flat tire this is someone I knew since we have been together but it didn't make sense he's a man he should know how to change a tire. So he ended up falling asleep. I have been having a gut feeling that he's been lying to me. So I took his phone and yes I know the password and went through it. What I found was heart breaking. Texts messages going back an fourth between him and another women him calling her baby and how he misses her. I started crying thinking I have always been faithful to him. And I'm here alone away from all my family and have so much invested in this house. I read as much as I could without getting angry at him. I went into the bedroom and woke him up and said what the fuck is wrong with you. He told me why did I go through his phone. I knew he was lying. And now it's right I front of me. She's a stripped and he swears up and down that he didn't cheat it was only texts. I'm so torn I haven't told anyone in my family. I only told a friend of mine. I'm so torn my heart hurts. How do u love someone and do this to them? I love him so much.