Vent session/awful weekend

We're expecting baby #1 in July. We have two dogs that are hard to find sitters for the way it is. One little dog that is disobedient and seems to be marking around the house.. (when I am unsure of cause I never catch him at it). We finally got there barking down to a minimal, but it's still there. They require being walked and played with and we again find a hard time. SO is gone early morning till late into the nights at times working. I am gone roughly 10 hours a day working myself. I'm not sure how we are going to juggle having these dogs and a baby in a small house. We've had them for 3 years. I just want a pet free, poop free yard with no dog hair anywhere. They cry cause the want out of the kennels at night. Ugh at such a loss for words.. I would be willing to give my dog away to a loving home, but SO isn't budging on his dog. & that's the one with the barking and marking issues 😥😥😥😥