Does your boyfriend not want to have sex?

Question

My boyfriend and I don't get to see each other but about once a week due to our jobs. When we do see each other it's like sex is the farthest thing from his mind. But for me it's what I want as soon as I see him. I know he's not cheating because I have access to everything he has and plus he works on a boat with no women! I need help! Sidenote he does want a blow job though! Lol

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I was going to say aww maybe he just wants to spend some quality time with you and he doesn't care if you have sex or not and then you said "but he does want a blow job" lol I don't know honestly my bf always wants sex and we used to have a ton but now that I'm pregnant it's gotten difficult for me to have sex haha

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I'm not trying to be mean or anything so don't take this wrong, but just because you have access to everything doesn't stop someone from cheating. Maybe he is too stressed or something? I would be worried only because my SO is always up for sex.

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The only times me and my boyfriend don't have sex is if I'm on my period or after a family event. I don't have a car so he drives me home and it's a 30 min drive. But I see him almost daily so we have a lot of sex anyways

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Maybe he's really tired and doesn't want to do all the work. Cowgirl might make him willing!

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My boyfriend and I have sex often and in a case where you would only see each other once a week I find it odd that he wouldn't jump your bones to be honest.

But sometimes my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex for some reason or another, usually because he's exhausted.
Even still I don't think exhaustion would stop him from jumping my bones if we only saw each other once a week, lol

With that said, some people just have different sex drives. Mine is higher than my boyfriend's (not by much though, thank god). But if your guy is willing to have sex with you, just doesn't initiate it, that's ok. As long as he's not saying no to sex, then it shouldn't be too big of an issue.

Does your boyfriend not want to have sex?

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