catfish or???

So theres this guy on instagram. he knows how to make me soo wet, and hes a dominant. Im really into being submissive, no questions asked. he has 25K Followers and he is 😍. But i have my doubts that hr is a catfish, I looked all over his page and saw no one called him out on anything, and in addition to that I want to be involved with us "helping" each other but I dont want that to roll out onto my personal life. Like I dont want to be "exposed" in shorter words because I have family anf friends all over my social media.