So I've had one Daddy in the past, BEST RELATIONSHIP EVER. (He introduced me to the kink) I was never able to get myself mentally in the mood to be able to orgasm any other way than rough sex mixed with DD/LG play. We kept up the kink both in and out of the bedroom and I loved it. He had to move for work and it ended.

Forward to present day, new guy of 3 months. I was very upfront about my kink because it's very important to me. I told him I'm into BDSM and more specifically DD/LG in and out of the bedroom. However because I've never opened up to anyone about it, I thought he would find the whole "Daddy" calling weird (thanks society) so I told him not everyone has to be called Daddy. Some Dom's prefer other names, he chose Sir.

IT'S NOT THE SAMEEEEE! I haven't had an orgasm or fully been able to enjoy myself. He calls me his little girl as well as princess, tells me I'm a good girl, chokes me, and recently started light spankings but I want to be marked up. I want to be punished. I want to have to be careful and on my toes as so I do not break any rules (which he hasn't really taken seriously about setting them with me). I miss it!

I have a wand, plugs, restraints, gags, an amazing Bluetooth controlled gspot plug/clit vibrating combo toy (we vibe sync 😍) that I want him to control in public. BUT IDK HOW TO HAVE THIS CONVERSATION.

I am not sure how to go about starting this conversation or even how to explain this without mentioning my old Daddy. Any advice?

This dry spot is killing me. I miss having a Daddy and I know he's new to DD/LG and even BDSM for that matter. I also know I can't just expect 0-100% DD/LG action instantly but I've never dealt with having to pop a man's DD/LG cherry. I'm super shy when it comes to explaining my desires...I am a little after all 😣

Thanks for any and all advice lovelies! 🦄🐰🌼🎠🌈👸🏼💕💄👗👑