Dad Passed Away

And all I got was a freaking Facebook message from my "sister". I'm so angry and hurt and betrayed right now... he was our DAD! And she's just talking like it's no big deal. I haven't seen him in 3 years. No one called or let me know he was even the hospital. And now, not even a week later apparently they've already gotten rid of all of his things. All I asked for was a shirt of his and a necklace that he specifically left for me. This entire time, she's behaved like since she lived closer to him and was able to be there more, she's his only "real" daughter. He had 5 girls. FIVE! And he loved ALL of us! Not just her! I just.... I feel like I was robbed of my right to say goodbye, and now I'm being robbed the right to grieve or hold on to just a small piece of him. I feel so alone through all of this. My other sisters are just as hurt, and we plan on doing something together to remember him by... but it hurts feeling so pushed away from him.

Any ideas on how to get closure from this? I don't know how to move forward. Everything just feels wrong.