Am I weird?!?

So I've been single for a while, just dating a little here and there, nothing serious.. So I started dating this guy and he is very intune with his feelings and I am the opposite.. I feel certain things won't work out because we are so different, i.e. Conversations about what we are thinking.. when we have this conversations, he thinks I'm breaking up with him.. I kinda feel like he doesn't have a masculinity level I need.. he is a great guy, caring, etc. but I just feel I am a better leader than him.. I don't feel secure enough.. am I tripping?? I just felt like I wanted somebody like me..