My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. Lately I've been feeling sad because I've noticed he doesn't try to plan things for us to do together, or doesn't do many little things to show me he cares. I usually am the one that comes up with most ideas such as monthly date nights, planning trips to amusement parks, new places we should go, places to eat. Occasionally I will here from him saying he would like to take me to that place or this place. But then, he never actually does take me or make the plan to take me. Time is not an issue, if he really wanted to do things he totally could. Anyways so I talked to him about this issue about two weeks ago and have not noticed any changes yet. What do you think? Should I wait longer? And if he doesn't end up doing anything, what should I do?