Is it wrong ?

Question

The father of my child and I do not get along what so ever, he wants nothing to do with me or the baby at all; left me when I was 2 months pregnant. However his sister and I been talking about bringing the baby to Puerto Rico to visit his great grandparents: just me, the baby and my baby fathers sister. Now she says she doesn't care how he reacts because she herself says he isn't there for the baby and doesn't make the decisions. My question to everyone is....

Am I doing the right thing for me to go to PR with his sister and the baby and not the father???

Again he doesn't want anything to do with me or the baby, has a new girlfriend & can careless about us but my sons aunt and grandmother (his family) been sticking around and very supportive.

Answer

That's great they want to be involved.  If he wants to have that attitude leave him to it but that doesn't mean your baby should moss out on half his family!

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If they want to be involved, let them. Don't push anyone away right now. You need the best support group you can get. 
But if you're afraid of how he will react, or afraid of him in general, let someone know. My ex is crazy so I let the cops know if I'm expecting trouble, no report or anything. It's just like hey don't be surprised if I call.

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I see absolutely nothing wrong going without him. If he was to go he would probably kill all the fun and love. You would have to deal with him instead of enjoying family.

Is it wrong ?

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